Great insight from prolific author David Emechete, especially if you have a prophetic or apostolic gift. Below is a reminder about true discipleship. You can find out more about David by clicking here.

In the first century, after Jesus died and rose again, the leaders of the Christian faith went out boldly, preaching the good news and winning many new believers. Yet, one thing they refused to do was to gather disciples for themselves. None of them had disciples. They never saw themselves as great teachers who deserved followers. They saw themselves simply as lowly servants. The early Christian leaders referred to those who believed not as their disciples, but as fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. Yes, the new believers were called disciples, but not of Peter, Paul, James, or any other leader – they were disciples of Jesus himself.
The early leaders understood something that we seem to have forgotten today: Jesus is alive. When He gave the Great Commission, He said, “make disciples of all nations,” baptise in His name, and teach to obey His commands. These new believers are to be disciples of Jesus Christ, not disciples of the ministers. Gathering disciples around oneself would be breaking away from the living Christ and starting a personal movement. This was unthinkable for the early Christian leaders. They knew they were not founders of a new religion, but witnesses of a living Lord. Paul, for instance, sharply rebuked the believers who began saying, “I am of Paul” or “I am of Apollos” in 1 Corinthians 1:12-13. He pointed them back to Christ, the only true leader of the Christian faith.
Jesus Himself gave a very clear instruction when He said, “Don’t let anyone call you ‘Rabbi,’ for you have only one teacher, and all of you are equal as brothers and sisters.” (Matt 23:8). In those days, it was disciples who called their teachers “Rabbi.” So, by telling them never to accept that title, Jesus was teaching them not to have disciples for themselves. They were to see every new believer not as their disciples or students to be ruled over, but as a brother or sister to walk with. This is exactly what the first Christian leaders did. They understood Jesus perfectly and obeyed His voice. They never allowed themselves to be called Rabbi, and they never claimed anyone as their disciple.
Sadly, today, many have abandoned this way. Some Christian leaders now proudly gather disciples for themselves, as though it is a badge of honour. Yet this is not the way of Christ. It is not the way of the first Christian community. We cannot claim to understand Jesus better than those who sat at His feet, ate with Him, and were personally taught by Him. These men, who received these instructions directly from Jesus, knew exactly what he meant. When He instructed them not to be called “Rabbi” they understood that he didn’t want them to have disciples, and they refused to have disciples. Every believer was a disciple of Jesus, not of any human leader. Jesus told them that he is their only teacher, and the apostles understood that he meant every new believer is to be Jesus’ disciple, not the disciple of the minister who led them to Christ.
In the true Christian faith, discipleship is not centred around a ministry or a single leader. Discipleship is something that happens within the Christian community as a whole. Jesus, being alive and present by His Spirit, discipled His people directly. Believers do not grow by blindly following a single human teacher. No single minister is meant to be responsible for a believer’s spiritual growth. As a minister, you are not the one discipling that believer, you are merely a vessel meant to play a part in Jesus’ discipling of that believer. The responsibility of that person’s spiritual growth is solely in the hands of Jesus. You are meant to simply play your part and leave the rest to Jesus.
One major way believers are to be discipled is by living together closely in Christian communities, observing one another’s lives. As they see Christ-like virtues displayed in their brothers and sisters – kindness, patience, forgiveness, love they are moved by the Spirit of God within them to recognise these virtues as true expressions of Christ’s nature. It is the Spirit of God who teaches believers which virtues are truly Christ-like. As they observe these virtues in the community, the Spirit bears witness within them, helping them know what to imitate. In this way, believers are discipled by Christ Himself, not by any one man or woman. They learn from living examples of Christ’s character shining through many different members of the community, not from the personality or teaching of a single ministry.

This is why the Neighbourhood-based Christian Community is very important. For true discipleship to happen, believers need to live closely together, observing Christ living in the life of each member. Discipleship is not about sitting under someone’s ministry, listening to their teachings week after week. True discipleship goes far deeper than simply hearing words spoken from a platform. It is about observing Christ-like virtues lived out in the daily realities of life. Believers need to see with their own eyes how love, patience, forgiveness, humility, kindness, and courage are practised in the small and big moments of everyday living. It is not enough to hear lessons about love; believers need to see love in action. It is not enough to hear sermons about forgiveness; they need to witness a brother or sister forgiving a wrong, even when it is painful.
Discipleship is not a classroom where people gather information; it is a living community where believers see the life of Christ expressed through real human lives.
This is why, in order to have true discipleship, we need the Neighbourhood-based Christian Community. It is within the closeness of living together, sharing life, and facing struggles side by side that believers truly grow. They do not grow merely by sitting under the ministry of one leader, no matter how gifted that leader may be. They grow by watching Christ being formed in the lives of those around them. In this way, Christ Himself is the one discipling them. His Spirit within them bears witness when they see something that is truly of Him. Their hearts recognise the beauty of His character displayed through the actions of their brothers and sisters. They are drawn to imitate these Christ-like virtues, not because they were ordered to, but because the Spirit of Christ inside them calls them to it.
Thus, discipleship in the Christian faith is a practical, living experience. It is not the work of a man’s ministry. Ministers are meant to play a role by carrying out their God-given ministries. No minister is meant to shoulder the responsibility of discipling a believer. True discipleship happens when believers can look around the community and see the character of Jesus being revealed in the way others treat each other, in the way they handle trials, in the way they remain faithful even when it costs them everything. This way, believers are not just taught the words of Christ; they are shown the life of Christ. And seeing that life, they are transformed into His likeness by the Spirit working within them.
True discipleship in the Christian faith is a living, breathing work of Christ within His people. I will say it again for the sake of emphasis: discipleship is not about one leader raising followers for himself. It is about Jesus raising a family for Himself. It is about believers encouraging, observing, learning from, and loving one another, all under the guidance of the Holy Spirit. No ministry has the right to claim the role of discipling believers. That role belongs to Jesus alone. He is the only true Master and teacher, and we are all brothers and sisters under His leadership.
Today, if we want to be faithful to Christ’s command, we must return to this simple and powerful truth. We must tear down the walls of personal empires built on gathering disciples for men. We must stop this genuine but misguided effort to shoulder the responsibility of discipling a fellow believer. If you truly want to see the restoration of true discipleship, then rejoin the living work of Christ in the Christian community. Seek the emergence of the Neighbourhood-based Christian Community. It is there, among brothers and sisters walking together in humility, that Christ Himself teaches, shapes, and raises His disciples for His glory.
David has a strong online presence. His books are available on Amazon, he shares regularly on Facebook at facebook.com/david.emechete, and his videos are available on Youtube.
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