True Family

I’ve always loved the exchange that Jesus had with his mother and his disciple John. It is recorded in John 19:26-27. A tender exchange right before Jesus proclaims, “It is finished!”

When Jesus therefore saw His mother, and the disciple whom He loved standing by, He said to His mother, “Women, behold your son!” Then He said the the disciple, “Behold your mother!” And from that hour that disciple took her to his own home.

In this act Jesus fulfills a beautiful scripture recorded in Psalm 67:5-6.

A father of the fatherless, a defender of widows, Is God in His holy habitation. God sets the solitary in families…

Throughout scripture Jesus would refer to God as Theos, Kyrios, Great King, Lord of Heaven and Earth, God of the Living, Most High, and Abba. However, I would suggest the most used, most common and most relatable term used by Jesus would be Father. It is worth the time to ponder why the creator and sustainer of all life would want to be known as a father and not by some grandiose cosmic name. What would you call yourself if you had that position?

The Bible says when we decide to follow Christ we become part of His family. We are adopted, God becomes our Father, Jesus becomes our big brother and we are introduced to a multitude of sisters and brothers. The early church ate and met together, shared everything so no one was in need and provided for the widows and orphans. No wonder the early church had such an impact on society.

If we think in context of family, the scriptures become a guide book on how to treat others, how to love each other, how to deal with conflict and how to do life together. We regard others more important than ourselves, we learn how to treat our spouses and we learn how to best reach others outside our family.

I believe doing life together with a spiritual family connects us to God and each other in a more significant way than what a conventional church can offer. Sitting down, sharing a meal, having conversations with one another and praying for each other seems like such a simple thing but it is in this environment that the Lord can speak to us, shape us and mold us to become more like Him.