In Western society it’s difficult to do life together, but it does happen, it can be sustained and it can be life-changing. I pray these stories encourage you to keep meeting, keep searching and start gathering. I had the pleasure of meeting Stephen Ventura recently while I was on vacation. He tells his story here.
Hello! My Name is Stephen Ventura. I grew up on the island of Kaua’i in Hawai’i. I grew up Catholic and did not have a personal relationship with Jesus. I graduated high school in 1981 and found the Lord in 1995. I was 32 years old when God radically changed me. After a series of bad decisions I found myself at the end of my rope and called out to God. He answered me and my life has never been the same.
In 2000, I went to seminary in the San Francisco, California area. I became a youth intern for a church in California and that’s where I met my wife, Diana. We got married and had my daughter Victoria who is now 19 years old. In 2010 we were called to the associate pastor position at Waikiki Baptist church on the island of Oahu, Hawai’i. We stayed there for five years (2015) then moved back to Kaua’i as church planters. The name of our church is Kaua’i House Church Network which includes three solid house churches and one that is starting up.
I was searching for something more after my seminary schooling and fifteen years on staff at two conventional style churches. I was looking for something more organic and less institutional. I’ve sat through endless board meetings, worked through tight budgets and then there’s building maintenance and logistics all overshadowed by the need to bring in more tithing people to keep the machine running.
As a church planter I was looking for something simple and organic, something with low overhead. I found that in the house church model. None of our leaders, including me, gets paid and we don’t have a cost associated with a building. We meet in homes, on the beach or in parks. It can’t get any simpler than that and the model is easy to reproduce.
We started out with a vision of a network which would organically grow by everyone making disciples. As more disciples are made there would be a need for leadership development and then we would see a natural multiplication of groups. We started in 2015 and this initial group met for five years before expanding. In 2021 we expanded into three groups, tw of which are located on Kaua’i and one located in Oahu. In 2023, one of our families moved to Florida and started a community of believers in their home. Also in 2023 another family attending our church started their own house church which grew quickly. They decided to become their own church and actually broke away from KHCN but they had our blessing. The goal is and always has been kingdom growth, not Kaua’i House Church Network growth. Our vision is to see simple forms of organic churches rise up throughout our island and beyond.
The challenge I would say is not everyone has the vision nor can they understand the concepts of house church, disciple making and church planting. I also believe that house church is a whole new paradigm that will take some time for people to catch on. Discipleship is another challenge. Christians are engrained with the idea that church is simply a spectator event: you attend once a week and it’s the pastor’s job to make disciples. After all, isn’t that why we pay them?
The house church structure and setting has been a great way to establish close relationships and we’ve become like family. Every week we meet and enjoy a meal together while discussing what’s going on in everyone’s life. After some time we break into a period of worship and discussion of the word. The message is shared and everyone can chime in. I usually close it with some key points, the good news and a challenge. I enjoy the intimate setting and the discussions that are initiated through the message. Others share their experiences, perspectives and things they’ve heard and learned about the particular passage we are studying. It brings a “multi-perspective” approach to preaching. I love that. Everyone is able to participate and everyone is hearing from the Spirit and speaking out. I think our quaint family style home church setting is the key to authentic biblical relationship building. We meet in our individual house church groups throughout the month and on the last Sunday of the month we all get together in one location for a big family-style potluck at the beach or a park.
For our group, the kids stay with us. We usually have something for them to color and we ask them questions and they share things as well. Two of our other groups have so many kids that they have someone lead them and they usually go outside to play while the adult group meets.
In my opinion, if a house church has all the same people meeting together after twenty years with no changes something is wrong. The goal is to make disciples that make disciples not sit, soak and get comfortable in our own little holy huddle. I challenge our people to be on mission at work, home, their communities and everywhere they go. The house church is always morphing, it’s organic, alive and takes on different shapes over time.
I think the secret, for me, is that I don’t have to build anything. I just share the gospel in a casual way with people I know and am trying to build relationships with. I disciple and teach our people to seek to make disciples and churches will eventually form. Some disciples grow faster than others and some house churches will spawn faster than others. So keep it simple and continue to preach the gospel rather than beat yourself up because you don’t see growth. Just live the gospel and the fruit of your labor will naturally develop. Jesus said, I will build my church. That’s all I need to know.
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